八月 23, 2011

《Speak》我不再沉默

這是一本描述一個中學女生被性侵之後把自己封閉起來的故事。透過米蘭達的緩慢回溯,我們一點一滴的明白發生在她身上的事。有點沉重,因為她不知如何尋求外援,朋友誤會她搞砸了party而不再和她交往,在沒有朋友的校園生存,是多麼痛苦的事! 伴隨著她的沉默的只有灰暗的日子,成績一直退步,家庭生活也乏善可陳......

最後,還是得自己省悟,自己先在心理想要改變,並且大聲說出自己的抗議,事情才終於有了轉圜,而犯錯的人,也終於得到報應。

其實,遇到這樣大的挫折,心情的惶恐、害怕、憤怒是可以想像的,但卻不要選擇用封閉的態度來面對。找個可靠的人說出來,心裡會好受一點。如果不想說,就堅強一點,

It's not your fault, so don't punish yourself.

自己的人生,要自己主導,千萬別被別人攪局!


八月 22, 2011

隨想二三事

『目送』和『來不及穿的8號鞋』這兩本都是令人讀完很感動,也很感傷的書。

◎龍應台說:「我慢慢地、慢慢地瞭解到,所謂父女母子一場,只不過意味著,你和他的緣分就是今生今世不斷地在目送他的背影漸行漸遠。你站立在小路的這一端,看著他逐漸消失在小路轉彎的地方,而且,他用背影默默告訴你:不必追。」

 

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七月 12, 2011

The Last Lecture ~by Randy Pausch (1960-10-23 – 2008-07-25)

前些日子看了"最後的演講"這本書,a very inspirig book.

他真是一個很好的role model,給了我許多啟發--as a teacher and a mother.

在追求自己的夢想之外,如果能幫助別人實現夢想是一件更棒的事。

今天在Youtube上把他的演講完整看完,即便他將走到生命的終點,

他卻完全沒有癌末的虛弱或悲情;相反的,整場演講都是神采奕奕、風趣幽默的,

卻在他最後一句話說出來的瞬間,我流下眼淚了,

"This talk wasn't for you guys. It was for my children."

可憐天下父母心!

為人父母總放心不下自己的孩子,尤其是他的三個小孩都如此年幼,

用這樣特別的方式,留下他的愛,他的風範給他的孩子,或許也只有他能辦到吧!

摘錄幾句有意思的話,原文照錄:

  • Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted.
  • Wait long enough, and people wil surprise and impress you.
  • Loyalty is a two-way street.
  • Be repared: "luck" is where peparation meets opportunity.
  • We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.
  • The brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out; the brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something. The brick walls are there to stop the people who don't want it badly enough. They are there to stop the other people!
  • When you see yourself doing something badly and nobody's bothering to tell you anymore, that's a very bad place to be. Your critics are the ones telling you they still love you and care.
  • The best gift an educator can give is to get someone to become self reflective.
  • Apologize when you screw up.
  • If I could only give three words of advice, they would be, "tell the truth." If I got three more words, I'd add: "All the time."


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